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No money, no job, no girlfriend, no boyfriend

A topic by: juliuscheng, on Business, Investing. Tags: failing life.

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Added by: juliuscheng on 22/04/2008

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I'm 25 year old		is this feedback useful? Author's rating
by juliuscheng on 22/04/2008
I'm 25 year old. My parent gave me 50k to support me staring a business. But I used that money to gamble and invest on high risk projects like forex. now all lose. My parents no money for me. And I also suddenly find I am lack of skills to do any type of job. Now no money, no job, no friends. I am so closed person. I sometimes hated myself. Filing life.

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get a job, save your money = girlfriend/boyfriend EASY!!		is this feedback useful? Author's rating
by emzfairy on 28/04/2008
get a job, save your money = girlfriend/boyfriend EASY!!

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by contactjinxi on 24/04/2008
well then things can only get better.. get down the nearest employment agency and sign on with them you will be working within days, doing something new with a whole bunch of people. Once your in work you always hear of jobs, so you should be ok. And with 50k you will at least have had a few good memorys... join a gym and get your head down in training, after a couple of weeks youll be lookin' pretty buff - the sun will be out and its all good.

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by Zoearcher on 23/04/2008
I cant believe that you blew that amount of money. Im sorry but I dont understand why you would not use your common sense and use that money wisely in the first place. You need to pick yourself up and just learn from your mistake and start over. Get yourself a job no matter how low paid and start to earn your self respect and try to learn from the mistakes you have made and treat money with respect and dont fritter it away this time.

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I agree with everyone else		is this feedback useful? Author's rating
by lisajb57 on 22/04/2008
I agree with everyone else. What has happened is in the past you now need to put a plan in place about what you want to do and start doing it. No one has any skills when they first enter the workforce and we all start at the bottom in an industry and only get to the top over years and working at it - you learn the skills along the way. Decide what interests in regards to a field or job type and then go for it. Everyone has skills and abilities you may just need to work out what yours are. Sorry to sound trite but you control your destiny, you have been down now turn it around.

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Whaaaaaaaat?		is this feedback useful? Author's rating
by dawndelyse on 22/04/2008
You blew how much? Thats really sad because you could have got some good financial advice and made something from it. Why oh why? You still have a chance to pick up the pieces of your life. Consider learning a trade through LEARN DIRECT (number from Google). Enrol in a course of your choice and go for it and dont start giving into self pity. Your parents trusted you because they have high hopes for your future so dont let them down now. Pick up those pieces and prove to yourself and them that you can do whatever you set out to do.

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by Hyacinth60 on 22/04/2008
I nearly choked on my tea when I saw how much youve blown. But its done now so stop being a "victim" and turn your life around. Many of us never had qualifications but we managed to get by, even if it meant doing cleaning jobs, waiting tables, and working in supermarkets. Youve had some brilliant advise from the others so chin up and get on and "good luck", and like Yowser says do let us know how you get on.

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by yowzer on 22/04/2008
As ghostdog just said about the topic on spirits, 'Reality check!!' ( and i disagree ghosty and how odd that yr user name is ghost??) anyway back to julus's REALITY CHECK! your parents gave you an oppportunity most of us would kill for and you blew it - your parents learnt their mistake and won't help you out again...theres your first clue, learn by your mistakes! you now realise that to get something back you have to put something in! Why not get a job, there are plenty around even if you have no skills, and at the same time study and get some qualifications. You will then be in two situations - workplace and college - and hopefully will make workmates and fellow students. You may even find a girlfriend. You are very young and presumably have your health and strength...so what are you waitng for - go for it! most of us have to find our own way in the world without big handouts from our parents and we have fun along the way - why not make your parents proud of you and even more important learn to stand on your own feet , and start to like yourself and feel proud of yourself!good luck and let us know how you get on!

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by lulujackson on 22/04/2008
You have to look at the things you have done through out your life and face up to your responsibilities. Things can change for you, it's not all about money in fact you can start again and become a better person, someone you can be proud of and what can make you prouder is that you have put things back together yourself. You will one day find someone to share everything with but until then you have to pick up the pieces and fix everything your parents can be made proud of you again this isn't the end of everything. Think about re doing your education and finding a job these are the first steps to getting your act together. Plenty of people have started out in life with a lot less than you have and made happy successful lives for themselves. You don't have to be a millionaire to be successful in life either, it's the things you put in to it and the things you get back that count.

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by magnius on 22/04/2008
Welcome to life. You had 50K given to you on a silver plater and blew it on stupidity, you must have screwed around in school to have come away from it with no skills. You blew 50K and are complaining your parents won't give you anymore money? I'm not surprised!! You need to consider starting from the bottom, getting a menial job in a Supermarket or as a postie or something like that, anything that doesn't involve too much skill, you can work your way up from there. If you are looking for sympathy you ain't getting any from me, you had a great opportunity handed to you and you blew it...tough...that's life.

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