The death of a loved one

you dont get over the death but have to learn to live with the loss

i dont think you ever get over losing a loved one, no matter how long it has been, people always say it gets easier, i dont agree, i dont think it ever gets any easier. we lost my mum 4 years ago, i think about her every day, and miss her so very much, i dont think i will ever get over losing her

No matter how long ago it is i dont think it gets any easier i lost my mum over 4 years ago now and it still as hard as the day we lost her i do think about her most days and try to talk about her as much as i can with my family i think that helps a little

share your feelings, talk about it. try to move on after the first anniversary

It is an awful time in anybody's life,but it comes to us all,the thing is it isn't the person who has died,it is sad for those left behind,who have to cope with the pain,i lost my grandad 9 years ago,when my eldest son was 5 months old,he died the day after father's day and i wasn't there when he died ,i had gone home to get my son to bed but as soon as i walked in the door we had a phone call he was going,but i think he had already gone,we got there as quick as we could but my mum and nan who were with him said he had already done,i still fel guilty that i left him to get my baby to bed but looking back did it make a big difference to my son if i had stayed there a a bit longer as we knew it was going to come soon,it wouldn't have hurt my son that much would it to stay up a bit later.
I have felt guilty for all these years that i wasn't there for him when i promised i would be,i cannot stop thinking that even an hour more would be okay,sorry i am stroping now as i am getting upset writing this.

its awful it really hurts i nkow i lost my friend who was more like a mother to me been there for me for long time treated my kids as grandchildren always in cards said mum and nana i miss her so much lifes unfare why do we lose the best people and scum like druggies and stuff still go on

You never get over the death of a loved one - i lost my mum back in October and it effects me every day!

a recent death will be painful for me for the rest of my life, its nealy 10 weeks since she died & I cant accept that im never going to se her ever again, im heartbroken

Difficult no matter how much you expect it. no words of comfort can make you feel any better.

i don't think you ever get over the death of someone close, i lost my mother 18 months ago and not a day goes by that i do not think of her, the hardest part is when things happen especially with my two children who she adored, that she is not there to tell and share things with. MY solace is that she was in terrible pain and her wish was to die, but i miss her so terribly and althougy time helps to heal the pain, i don't think i will ever view life the same, i wish her here every day.